• Effective consequences for children are those that are closely tied to their behaviour and provide a clear learning opportunity. For example, if a child forgets to complete their homework, a logical consequence might involve them spending some extra time after school to catch up. This approach helps the child understand the importance of responsibility and encourages them to think about their choices.

    On the other hand, non-effective consequences often create confusion or resentment. Punishments that seem arbitrary, such as taking away playtime for unrelated issues, can lead to feelings of frustration and may not encourage positive behavioural change. Instead of fostering a sense of accountability, such consequences may drive a wedge between children and their caregivers, making them more likely to act out in the future. Effective discipline should always aim to teach rather than merely punish, promoting understanding and growth.