As a techie homeschool mum, I once prided myself on maintaining a strict regime around my children’s screen time. I had spreadsheets, timers, and a plethora of apps all designed to monitor and limit their exposure to screens. Yet, over time, I realised this approach was becoming counterproductive. Instead of fostering a love for learning and creativity, I was instilling anxiety around technology—a tool I wholeheartedly believe can enrich education.

The turning point came one afternoon when I noticed my eldest, usually full of curiosity, disengaging from activities he once adored in favour of sneaking glances at screens. The very thing I had sought to limit was driving a wedge between our family's joy of exploration and learning. In my quest to control and protect, I overlooked the opportunities for dialogue and healthy engagement with technology that could have fostered critical thinking and balance.

So I decided to take a step back and allow my children the freedom to navigate their screen time with guidance rather than directives. We now gather as a family to discuss what they’re watching or playing, exploring the educational benefits and the potential pitfalls together. This shift not only eased the tension in our home but also cultivated a more meaningful relationship with technology—one built on trust and understanding rather than restriction.