Raising children who exhibit entitlement and spoiled behaviour often stems from certain parenting practices. Here are seven key behaviours that may contribute to this outcome:
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Overindulgence: Parents may consistently give in to their children's desires, whether it's excessive gifts or freedom, teaching them that they are always deserving of more without the need for effort.
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Lack of Boundaries: In an attempt to be friends with their children, some parents fail to establish clear rules and consequences, leading children to believe they can manipulate situations to their advantage.
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Excessive Praise: Overvaluing every small achievement can inflate a child’s self-esteem to the point where they expect recognition for everything they do, regardless of effort or merit.
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Minimising Consequences: Shielding children from failure or disappointment can foster a sense of entitlement, as they learn they are not responsible for their actions and can avoid accountability.
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Comparative Parenting: Parents who constantly compare their children to peers, often in a competitive manner, may unintentionally instil a sense of superiority and entitlement to privileges.
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Failure to Teach Gratitude: Neglecting to instil the importance of appreciation for what they have can lead children to take their privileges for granted, thus fostering an attitude of entitlement.
- Inconsistent Discipline: A lack of consistency in rules and consequences fosters confusion and a sense of unfairness, leading children to believe they can negotiate their way out of responsibilities.
These behaviours, while often well-intentioned, can create a mindset in children that prioritises self-interest over empathy and accountability, hampering their development into well-adjusted adults.
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